Fantasize & Tell!

Fantasize & Tell!...

Couples will often tell me, “we want to work on our relationship.” Sounds reasonable I suppose, but certainly not very exciting. Ho hum. How do we “work on” our relationship, without it feeling like a trip to the dentist’s office? One exercise I encourage...
Touch me!

Touch me!...

In 1977 the Canadian songwriter Dan Hill wrote and performed the simple love song, “Sometimes When We Touch.” It quickly became a massive hit, rising to #3 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100, but was so overplayed it became a wearisome parody of itself, also nearing the top of many...
Departures & Arrivals

Departures & Arriv...

Are you flying anywhere today? Aviation experts suggest that the take-off and landing are the most important, vulnerable and potentially dangerous part of the journey. Consider also how you “take off” and “land” every day in your relationship. The leaving...
The 1.0% Experience

The 1.0% Experience...

Give your husband or wife 1% of your life! (If you have time…) If on your wedding day someone challenged you to “give a full 1% of your time each week” to each other, to just be together, peacefully sifting through the bits and pieces of your lives; giving space...